Ah yes, there is nothing quite like romance and grand gestures. As cheesy as they may be, they’re even lovelier these days because they’re so uncommon. Who writes poetry for their love? Who plays them a song on their front porch? All those 80s and 90s rom-coms are so far in the past, yet they’re as relevant now as they were back then. A particular act of love I’m referring to? A good old-fashioned handwritten love letter.
They’re beautiful, simple, true, raw, and real. So where the hell are they?! Nowhere, because they’re a thing of the past. Love letters have been present throughout history long before texts, Facebook, and all that other stuff. It’s great for both readers and writers. So why are they barely a thing when they offer so much more than a kiss face emoji? Although I love that emoji. Here’s five reasons why love letters need to come back.
1. It’s as personal as it gets
This is first and foremost. Anyone can type out a text by phone or a document on their computer, but to use your full time to take a pen and paper and write your feelings out… that’s something else. It’s charming, original, and it’s an expression of who you really are. Handwriting is such a personal matter and it can say a good amount about who it belongs to. So when in doubt, write it out.
2. They’re way more passionate… Obviously.
There’s something fiery about professing your feelings unapologetically. Everyone wants a true declaration of love in some form. Whether we see it in history, movies, or somewhere in pop culture, there is nothing to take lightly or overthink about a love letter. This is a solid sign of how someone feels. There’s a sense of longing within them; it’s the fact that you’ve been on their mind enough for them to find release in written word. Yes, please.
3. You’ll always have it… I hope
Phones are replaced, calls end, but letters are something you can store safely away in your room. I have a little memory box under my bed where I keep concert tickets, special photos, and select birthday cards from the important people in my life. No, I do not have any love letters in there… yet. However, if I did, they’d go there. When you miss someone or simply want to reread your love’s poetic words, unfolding a worn sheet of paper feels nice in your hands. And if the day comes to part ways, then at least paper is flammable, right?
4. It allows you to tap into your emotions without fear of judgement
This is a very important thing to remember. I find that sometimes we can hold back when faced with the opportunity to say how we really feel. We speak it softly, but inside our minds we’re shouting out what we actually want to say. I know I’ve done it. But when we write it, something about the voice in our heads translating onto paper feels calming. It makes you more fearless and forget less of what people will think. You can just let the chips fall where they may. It will probably come out amazing anyway, so who cares?
5. They’re a thing of the past so why the hell not?
Maybe it’s just me, but I usually like to do what nobody else is doing. Love letters are an art long gone. If everyone’s writing long texts and captions, wouldn’t you want something that has some more magic to it? Stand out and step out on a limb. Your love will know you’ve got that something special when they read your words in a quiet space and think of you. Take my advice: Go against the flow this time.
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