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7 Beautifully Inspiring Books About Loving Unapologetically

Love is never easy, but we all deserve to love and be loved in return no matter how we identify ourselves and who we choose to love. Sorry, there was a lot of “love” in that sentence, but what the world needs now is just that, and on this National Coming Out Day let’s spread the sentiment to everyone—lesbian, gay, bi, trans, and everyone else a part of the rainbow flag.

 

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In honor of National Coming Out Day, let’s celebrate these stories that remind us all to be ourselves and love who we love.

 

 

 

1. Giovanni’s Room by James Baldwin

 

 

Giovanni's Room (Vintage International) by [Baldwin, James]

 

A historical classic in Gay and Queer literature, this story follows a young man coming to terms with his homosexuality in 1950s Paris. Published in a time when homosexuality was not accepted in society and even considered a mental illness, Baldwin’s book about sexuality and acceptance was groundbreaking and meant the world to thousands upon thousands of LGBT people, especially for gay men.

 

 

2. Two Boys Kissing by David Levithan

 

Two Boys Kissing by [Levithan, David]

 

Focused on two ex-boyfriends trying to make a new Guinness record⁠—making out for a 32-hour marathon⁠—this optimistic tale centers around universal questions of love, identity, and belonging that our teenaged characters struggle with. An unconventional read, Two Boys Kissing will leave you with bliss and hope that love will find a way.

 

 

3. Tell Me Again How a Crush Should Feel by Sara Farizan

 

Tell Me Again How a Crush Should Feel: A Novel by [Farizan, Sara]

 

Leila is trying to make it through and fit in at her high school, and struggling to accept her Iranian-American descent when she is at school is tough enough, but she is hiding the fact that she is also gay. Everything goes according to plan until the beautiful new girl Saskia shows up. Leila starts to take risks she never thought she would, including coming out to one of her best friends about her feeling for Saskia. Finally coming out, Leila learns that every one of her classmates are keeping secrets of their own.

 

 

 

 

 

4. Rubyfruit Jungle by Rita Mae Brown

Rubyfruit Jungle: A Novel by [Brown, Rita Mae]

 

With parents who love her deeply, beauty and wit that makes all the ladies swoon, Molly Bolt is paving her own life the way she wants it. This inspiring coming-of-age tale teaches us to be true to ourselves and, against the odds, strive for a happily ever after.

 

 

5. For Today I Am a Boy by Kim Fu 

For Today I Am a Boy: A Novel by [Fu, Kim]
To Peter Huang’s parents, he is the exalted son in a sea of daughters⁠, expected to portray the ideal masculine man, but there’s an issue with that⁠, aside from toxic masculinity⁠—Peter does not identify with being a boy. While his sisters find their own way in life, Peter knows that freedom will not as easy for him. However, with their help, and the help of many he finds along the way, Peter works towards changing his life so he can finally feel comfortable in his own skin.

 

 

6. Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinbe

 

 

This biographical novel follows the real-life struggle of Jess Goldberg. With the rigorous gender pressures of society, Jess questions her identity her entire life, trying to find where she fits in and where she can survive.

 

 

 

 

7. Prom and Other Hazards by Jamie Sullivan

 

Prom and Other Hazards

 

Let’s be honest, not everyone was excited for prom. The same can be said for non-binary high schooler Sam, who wants nothing to do with it. If it weren’t for her best friend Tash, who has been dreaming about the perfect, romantic prom night, Sam would never consider going. After finding the perfect suit to match Sam’s androgynous and suave style, Sam puts a plan in motion to not only pay off the ridiculously expensive suit, but also to build up the courage to tell Tash how deeply in love she has been with her for years.

 

 

 

 

Granted not all of these books have romance as the focus, coming out is not always about having some romantic partner encouraging you to be true to what you want. There are times when you have to find it yourself. Either way, in this day and age, let’s hope that all can celebrate being who they are, and loving who they are, unapologetically.

 

 

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10 James Baldwin Quotes to Celebrate His Birthday!

Today marks what would have been the 94th birthday of American author, James Baldwin. Baldwin held many titles, from novelist, to social critic, to pioneer of the LGBT community. Through his writing, including his well-known works such as Notes of a Native Son and Giovanni’s Room, Baldwin gave a voice to marginalized groups that had long gone unheard in American society, including Gay African-American men. 

 

 

Though he passed away some time ago, his powerful insight into identity, sexuality, and cultural experience will continue to find resonance among readers all around the world.

 

 

Here are ten uplifting James Baldwin quotes to celebrate his life and legacy!

 

 


 

“Fires can’t be made with dead embers, nor can enthusiasm be stirred by spiritless men. Enthusiasm in our daily work lightens effort and turns even labor into pleasant tasks.”

 


 

“Love does not begin and end the way we seem to think it does. Love is a battle, love is a war; love is a growing up.”

 


 

“No one can possibly know what is about to happen: it is happening, each time, for the first time, for the only time.”

 


 

“Not everything that is faced can be changed, but nothing can be changed until it is faced.”

 


 

“Love takes off masks that we fear we cannot live without and know we cannot live within.”

 


 

“You think your pain and your heartbreak are unprecedented in the history of the world, but then you read.”

 


 

“I imagine one of the reasons people cling to their hates so stubbornly is because they sense, once hate is gone, they will be forced to deal with pain.”

 


 

“To be sensual, I think, is to respect and rejoice in the force of life, of life itself, and to be present in all that one does, from the effort of loving to the making of bread.”

 


 

“Everybody’s journey is individual. If you fall in love with a boy, you fall in love with a boy. The fact that many Americans consider it a disease says more about them than it does about homosexuality.”

 


 

“There are so many ways of being despicable it quite makes one’s head spin. But the way to be really despicable is to be contemptuous of other people’s pain.”

 

 

 

 

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