Category: Philosophy & Society

7 Beautifully Inspiring Books About Loving Unapologetically

Love is never easy, but we all deserve to love and be loved in return no matter how we identify ourselves and who we choose to love. Sorry, there was a lot of “love” in that sentence, but what the world needs now is just that, and on this National Coming Out Day let’s spread the sentiment to everyone—lesbian, gay, bi, trans, and everyone else a part of the rainbow flag.

 

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In honor of National Coming Out Day, let’s celebrate these stories that remind us all to be ourselves and love who we love.

 

 

 

1. Giovanni’s Room by James Baldwin

 

 

Giovanni's Room (Vintage International) by [Baldwin, James]

 

A historical classic in Gay and Queer literature, this story follows a young man coming to terms with his homosexuality in 1950s Paris. Published in a time when homosexuality was not accepted in society and even considered a mental illness, Baldwin’s book about sexuality and acceptance was groundbreaking and meant the world to thousands upon thousands of LGBT people, especially for gay men.

 

 

2. Two Boys Kissing by David Levithan

 

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Focused on two ex-boyfriends trying to make a new Guinness record⁠—making out for a 32-hour marathon⁠—this optimistic tale centers around universal questions of love, identity, and belonging that our teenaged characters struggle with. An unconventional read, Two Boys Kissing will leave you with bliss and hope that love will find a way.

 

 

3. Tell Me Again How a Crush Should Feel by Sara Farizan

 

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Leila is trying to make it through and fit in at her high school, and struggling to accept her Iranian-American descent when she is at school is tough enough, but she is hiding the fact that she is also gay. Everything goes according to plan until the beautiful new girl Saskia shows up. Leila starts to take risks she never thought she would, including coming out to one of her best friends about her feeling for Saskia. Finally coming out, Leila learns that every one of her classmates are keeping secrets of their own.

 

 

 

 

 

4. Rubyfruit Jungle by Rita Mae Brown

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With parents who love her deeply, beauty and wit that makes all the ladies swoon, Molly Bolt is paving her own life the way she wants it. This inspiring coming-of-age tale teaches us to be true to ourselves and, against the odds, strive for a happily ever after.

 

 

5. For Today I Am a Boy by Kim Fu 

For Today I Am a Boy: A Novel by [Fu, Kim]
To Peter Huang’s parents, he is the exalted son in a sea of daughters⁠, expected to portray the ideal masculine man, but there’s an issue with that⁠, aside from toxic masculinity⁠—Peter does not identify with being a boy. While his sisters find their own way in life, Peter knows that freedom will not as easy for him. However, with their help, and the help of many he finds along the way, Peter works towards changing his life so he can finally feel comfortable in his own skin.

 

 

6. Stone Butch Blues by Leslie Feinbe

 

 

This biographical novel follows the real-life struggle of Jess Goldberg. With the rigorous gender pressures of society, Jess questions her identity her entire life, trying to find where she fits in and where she can survive.

 

 

 

 

7. Prom and Other Hazards by Jamie Sullivan

 

Prom and Other Hazards

 

Let’s be honest, not everyone was excited for prom. The same can be said for non-binary high schooler Sam, who wants nothing to do with it. If it weren’t for her best friend Tash, who has been dreaming about the perfect, romantic prom night, Sam would never consider going. After finding the perfect suit to match Sam’s androgynous and suave style, Sam puts a plan in motion to not only pay off the ridiculously expensive suit, but also to build up the courage to tell Tash how deeply in love she has been with her for years.

 

 

 

 

Granted not all of these books have romance as the focus, coming out is not always about having some romantic partner encouraging you to be true to what you want. There are times when you have to find it yourself. Either way, in this day and age, let’s hope that all can celebrate being who they are, and loving who they are, unapologetically.

 

 

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How Much Should Teens Be Exposed to in Fiction?

Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn is perhaps one of the most disturbing psychological thrillers ever written. It follows married couple Nick and Amy who are about to celebrate their fifth wedding anniversary until Amy disappears. The book is written from two points of view—that of Nick and his disturbing reactions to Amy’s disappearance as well as Amy’s perfectionistic diary entries. Gone Girl is famous for a particularly unexpected twist and shocking realization that Amy and Nick aren’t who we think they are.

When I was in my late teens, I read Gone Girl for the first time, a book that obviously deals with heavy topics. It was my first time reading a truly mature, “adult” book and while I was thoroughly shocked, I wasn’t surprised. In another instance, I remember back in middle school when a fellow classmate (and very advanced reader) wanted to do a presentation on A Song of Ice and Fire for English class but was forbidden because of “inappropriate content.”

After I read Gone Girl, I was intrigued by these heavy topics and began exploring more about the book. I found a post online full of parents complaining about whether or not the book was appropriate for teens. There were numerous answers from parents responding with hard fast “NO!”s, citing the book’s foul language and intense, disturbing topics.

 

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I became confused, as I’d had plenty of experience with these topics already outside of the book. Here’s the funny thing about the question of how much teens should be exposed to in fiction. Children and teens are exposed to plenty of vulgar language and topics in school, oftentimes even being required to debate and form an opinion on said topics. And if that isn’t enough, they’ve certainly seen graphic material on the news and are being educated on procedures in schools in the event of an active shooter. We’re even seeing the publication of entire books like This is Where it Ends dedicated to the topic of school shooters.

 

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The world is changing. Children and teens are being given a voice in controversial issues, yet parents still debate over whether or not children should have fictional exposure to these topics. Here’s another funny thing: parents might think that teens as old as high school age would not understand or shouldn’t be subject to the content of a book like Gone Girl. Yet in a few years, when they turn 18, teens will be expected to be well-informed about the dangers of the real world so that they stay safe in college and the workplace. Dangers like rape, kidnapping, and abuse, all of which were themes featured in Gone Girl. Gone Girl is a work of fiction, but hearing that parents shelter their teens like this is rather alarming to me. Because what about when it comes to works of nonfiction?

 

 

Yes, Gone Girl is a work of fiction but it is good exposure. I personally found this book deeply disturbing, as most do, but also fascinating. It’s a look into the minds of two very disturbed people. A young teen might read Gone Girl and take up an interest in psychology in order to work with people like Nick and Amy. Maybe a young reader will decide to study criminal justice or analyze handwriting, inspired by something they read in the book. Hiding such information seems, to me, like a wasted opportunity. Every book we read changes us in some small way, adds a new thought to our minds. Gone Girl is an incredible book with the ability to make its readers think in new ways about people and relationships, about the crime stories we hear on the news, because none of us truly know what goes on behind closed doors.

 

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Let’s not forget that a number of young children today dislike reading, which is extremely disheartening. Sometimes I wonder if the reason so many of them hate it is because parents or teachers are handing them books that don’t show the truth of the world today, that they feel aren’t relevant to their lives. Gone Girl is certainly relevant, I think, to today’s world of crime and broken relationships, even if it took some fictional liberties. So maybe it should be up to the teen or child themselves to decide the level of intensity and relevancy that they can handle from a book, not anyone else.

 

 

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Justice Sotomayor’s Book Challenges How We Approach Our Differences

 

Supreme Court Justice Sonia Sotomayor wants children to know that it’s okay to be different, and is using her new children’s book to convey that message.

 

The first Latina justice on the highest court in the country has written a new children’s book titled Just Ask: Be Different, Be Brave, Be You, with illustrations by Rafael Lopez.

It tells the story of a group of children who are working on planting a garden. Each of the children has something different about them, but are afraid of talking about it. The book then encourages the kids to break down barriers and ask their friends about what they need in hopes of becoming better friends.

 

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Sotomayor drew inspiration for the book from an incident after she was diagnosed with diabetes at age 7. When she was giving herself an insulin shot, someone accused her of being a drug addict. Holding back frustration, Sotomayor told the person the truth and encouraged them to ask if you don’t understand something, before making a horrible assumption.

 

The book features a young Sotomayor talking about her diabetes diagnosis, along with other characters that have blindness, ADHD and several other illnesses. Sotomayor hopes to use these characters to show that being different isn’t a bad thing.

 

Differences provide not just beauty in life, but they’re important to the quality of the world we live in. It’s richer because of our differences. We’re not lesser because of it. We’re stronger because of it. My book celebrates the many ways in which kids and adults are different and do things differently.

-Sonia Sotomayor

 

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Just Ask is available now.

 

 

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The Charybdis of Literary Meme Culture

Hello internet denizens. Do you Like Homer? Sappho? Memes? Allow me to introduce you to the swirling vortex that is the classics fandom. It may have been two-hundred years since they got any new material, but the community is still going strong. Let’s take a look.

Here, a meme about the greatest intellectual tragedy of all time.

 

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But it’s not all about history. Here are some about the Iliad.

 

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Alright, so it wasn’t a gift, it was a sacrifice to the gods that the Trojans were foolish enough to steal, but I’m not mad about it. Trojan horse memes may be antique, but they’re classic (heh).

How about another Iliad meme, this time thanks to Parks and Rec.

 

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No opinions on the Iliad? No worries! There are general interest memes as well, about things like the Greek gods.

 

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Zeus is a thot. That’s the real takeaway. There’s actually a lot of comedic Zeus hate, which is honestly incredibly valid. Try this one on for size.

 

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Of course, it didn’t work out very well for Prometheus, but at least he got a burn in before being chained… to a rock… and having his liver… repeatedly eaten. Yikes. He’s definitely going to need more than aloe.

 

 

Just one more history meme before I go.

 

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March fifteenth may have come and gone somehow, but jokes about stabbing Caesar don’t have to be contained to one date, and next year, when you see this last meme, you’ll know it’s come.

 

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